Welcoming A Baby in Spring; a Slow Unfolding

Spring is here—the days are getting longer, the flowers are blooming, and there's a gentle nudge in the air to move, do, bloom.
And yet… you're in the newborn bubble.

Tender. Tired. Raw. Deep in the sacred cocoon of postpartum.

If you're feeling pulled between the outward energy of the season and the inward need for healing and bonding, you're not alone. This season of your life doesn’t have to fight against spring's energy—it can blend with it, if you approach it with care, intention, and grace.

Let’s talk about how to honor your body and bond with your baby, while gently attuning to the light and life that spring brings.

🌱 1. Redefine What “Movement” Means

It's natural to crave movement as the sun stretches higher in the sky. But movement in postpartum doesn’t have to mean long walks, workouts, or productivity. As your body is still healing and all of your energy is going towards sustaining your newborn, you should think: gentle, nourishing and life giving.

  • Slow stretches in bed or yoga mat with baby nearby

  • A barefoot step onto the porch to feel the sun on your face and the grounding earth beneath you

  • Swaying with your baby in your arms, dancing slowly to your favorite song

  • Breathing deeply as you open the windows and invite in fresh air

Let your movement support your healing—not rush it.

🕊️ 2. Practice “Soft Productivity”

There’s a difference between getting things done and getting things right for this season. Your brain might be stirring with ideas, projects, or home organization dreams—thanks, spring energy! But postpartum is about rhythms, not checklists. It’s a sacred time that should be cherished and honored as a slow transition.

Try this:

  • Write down the ideas or tasks that are bubbling up. Give them a home on paper so you don’t feel pressure to act now.

  • Choose one soft thing to focus on each day—like learning to baby-wear, nourishing your newborn, preparing a healing tea, reading a book to your toddler or folding baby’s clothes with intention.

  • Celebrate rest as a form of productivity. You're healing, your sustaining life and your navigating a whole new relationship.

  • Outsource help from a friend, family member or postpartum doula to ease the need for productivity and checklists to be completed. 

🌸 3. Create a Seasonal Nest

Even as the earth wakes up, your space can remain womb-like. You don’t need to be out in the world to enjoy spring—you can bring the outside in.

  • Open the windows for a breeze and birdsong

  • Place fresh flowers or budding branches by your nursing station or bedside

  • Use light, floral essential oils (lavender, rose, neroli) or herbal tinctures to uplift your mood

  • Cocoon yourself with comforting belly binding using a soft, lightweight muslin fabric

It’s amazing how a few seasonal shifts can refresh your spirit without overexerting your body.

🌼 4. Make Nourishment Your Rhythm

Postpartum bodies need grounding, warm, nutrient-dense foods—but spring often makes us crave lighter meals. You can honor both!

  • Sip on seasonal broths infused with spring greens

  • Eat a nourishing, but light meal such as creamy spring salmon

  • Enjoy warm teas with hints of lemon balm, chamomile, or nettles for energy and calm

  • Have your doula batch-prep soothing snacks like oat bites, chia pudding with stewed fruit, or soft boiled eggs with herbs

Eating slowly, mindfully, and with deep gratitude is a beautiful form of springtime nourishment in itself.

🌞 5. Soak in the Sun—on Your Terms

That sun? She’s calling you. And you can answer without overextending yourself. Sunlight can support mood, hormone balance, and even milk supply—so it’s a postpartum superpower.

  • Sit in the sunshine by a window while you feed your baby

  • Lie on a blanket in the backyard for 10 minutes with your feet on the earth

  • Step outside with your baby wrapped close in a woven wrap and breathe in the spring air

You don’t have to go far to feel refreshed and renewed. Presence is everything.

🌙 6. Honor Your Inner Season

While spring is blossoming outside, postpartum is still your winter. Your body, heart, and hormones are still moving slowly. Still integrating. Still bleeding, shifting, weeping, becoming.

It’s okay to feel at odds with the world’s pace. It’s okay to go slow, even when everything is blooming fast.
Let others bloom. You? You're rooting.

Let your roots get strong and deep. The blossoming will come.

You Are Exactly Where You Need to Be

So give yourself permission to nest a little longer.
To sip your tea slowly.
To watch the cherry blossoms from the warmth of your window.
To be with your baby in all the sacred stillness this season offers.

You are not behind. You are exactly on time.

Looking for ways to design your own slow postpartum plan? Let’s chat about simple routines, rituals, or seasonal support ideas that match where you are. You're not meant to do this alone. 💛

Don't Tell Anyone I Hired a Sleep Coach

Don't Tell Anyone I Hired a Sleep Coach

"My friends would judge me if they knew.”

"I'm embarrassed that I had to ask for help."

"I'm afraid people will think I'm a bad mom."

What do these statements have in common?

They're all phrases I've heard from sleep coaching clients. And they are all surrounded in fear of judgment.

Most people who have chosen to sleep train their baby (regardless of the method they chose) will tell you how it saved their sanity, but they may also share that the process can be a little (or a lot) nerve wrecking. From shame surrounding their need for help, to a fear of being judged, to being unsure if it will work; parents who choose to sleep train, often have to overcome a few hurdles of their own. 

We all know that parenting is hard. No one tells you just how difficult it can be, especially when you're sleep-deprived, trying to keep it all together, and doing your best to be the perfect parent. But here's the thing: no one is perfect, and asking for help doesn't make you any less of a good parent. In fact, it shows strength, wisdom, and the desire to do what's best for both you and your baby.

When it comes to sleep training, it’s not simply about getting your baby to sleep through the night… although, that’s often a primary goal… it's about reclaiming your peace of mind, restoring your energy, and giving yourself the space to be a better, more present parent. Yet, despite all the benefits, there's still a huge stigma surrounding sleep training.

Why? Because there’s this belief that asking for help means you’ve failed. But that couldn’t be further from the truth.

Using Carrot Benefits for a Night Doula in Orange County

Bringing home a newborn is no joke. You’re exhausted, recovering from birth, running on fumes, and trying to figure out how to keep a tiny human alive while also keeping yourself somewhat functional. I know that might sound bleak, but the amazing thing is - there is hope. You don’t have to navigate postpartum alone. If your employer offers Carrot benefits, you may be able to use them to pay for overnight postpartum doula support. That means you get some actual sleep while a professional doula helps care for you and your baby. Yes, it’s a real thing. And yes, it’s worth every penny (especially when it’s covered).

How to Cope with Bed Rest During a Twin Pregnancy: Tips from a Doula

How to Cope with Bed Rest During a Twin Pregnancy: Tips from a Doula

So, your doctor has just uttered the dreaded words: “You need to go on bed rest.” Whether it’s for a few weeks or the remainder of your pregnancy, bed rest can feel like a double-edged sword—especially when you’re pregnant with twins. On one hand, you’re doing everything to keep those babies safe and sound for as long as possible. On the other hand, it’s mentally and physically exhausting to be stuck in one place, day in and day out, while worrying about your sweet babies.

Postpartum Recovery After Twins: What You Need to Know

Postpartum Recovery After Twins: What You Need to Know

So, you’ve brought two babies into this world. First of all, you’re a superhero—no doubt about it. But let’s get real for a second: postpartum recovery after twins is not the same as recovering from a single birth. It’s double the diapers, double the feedings, double the sleepless nights—and sometimes, double the discomfort. Your body just did an incredible, exhausting, miraculous thing. Now, it's time to heal, recover, and find yourself again in the whirlwind of having two newborns at home.

It’s important to remember, you’re not just healing from birth. You’re also adjusting to a new life with two precious babies. And while there’s a lot of joy, there’s also a lot of messiness that nobody really prepares you for. Let’s break down what you really need to know about postpartum recovery after twins!